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Chapter 40: In the Basement | My Southern Gothic Life

There is a new post up on my other blog.  Please click the link at the bottom for the full post….

There has always been a myth that New Englanders locked their crazy relatives in the attic.  Everyone knows, in the South, most of ours roamed free.

However in the 1970′s another phenomenon occurred:  People started putting their teenagers in the basement.

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Shame: Evelyn Champagne King

This was the first “disco” song played at my college fraternity, Lambda Chi Alpha, at Washington and Lee University in the late 1970’s.

As I recall, it was quite controversial to play this as previously it had been all Beach Music or some strange Southern rock stuff late at night…

But my friend Ralph prevailed.  He was after a new attitude for the parties…

And the parties got much better…

It was a good mix…

And we danced all night…

Because it might have been “disco” but you could still shag to it…

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Wireless Explosion « Washington and Lee University News

Oh, how things have changed since the dark ages when I first went to W&L in the fall of 1977 and lived in an unair-conditioned dorm with a shared phone down the hall.  And I thought I was cutting edge back then with both a TV and a record player/stereo in my room….

I was also the only Freshman with a stick vacuum cleaner for the carpets I brought with me…

For the past two years, Washington and Lee’s Information Technology Services, in collaboration with the Office of Institutional Effectiveness, has surveyed incoming first-year students to find out what kinds of technology they are bringing to campus. Those of us in the manual-typewriter and clock-radio generation of college students can only look in awe at what we’re seeing on campus today, especially the explosion in wireless devices.

For instance, about 60 percent of the entering students this fall brought smart phones with them. Smart phones are defined as those cell phones that offer data service, including Web browsing and e-mail. That represents a significant increase of 21 percent over just one year ago. As Jeff Overholtzer, director of strategic planning and communications for ITS, indicates, this is only the beginning. “We expect the increase in ownership of smart phones to continue. Virtually all students use cell phones, and use them in many ways, including texting (99 percent); the Web (61 percent); Facebook (59 percent); e-mail (55 percent); personal calendar (45 percent); and music (34 percent).”

When it comes to computers, only two out of 466 entering students did not bring one. On the other hand, 36 students brought two more more computers. And laptops now represent almost 99 percent of the total computers. While Macs had been in a steady climb in recent years, that trend leveled out this year, with about 61 percent of students bringing Macs.

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Chapter 37: Brooks Brothers Is My Tiffany’s | My Southern Gothic Life

I have a new post up on my other blog: http://www.mysoutherngothiclife.com.  Here is an excerpt and a link to the full post:

A young friend of mine just saw “Breakfast At Tiffany’s” for the first time recently and it got me to thinking…

Holly Golightly, of course played by the one and only Audrey Hepburn,  always goes to Tiffany’s when the “mean reds” hit or she needs to feel safe and secure.  That’s how I feel about Brooks Brothers.

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Chapter 36: Why the South Votes Republican | My Southern Gothic Life

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I’ve thought a lot about this over the last few days as we head to another election.  For Progressive’s like me, it’s forecast to be a rough one who’s results may lead us backward as opposed to foreward.

And, once again, the South will lead us there.  We’ve always been good at looking fondly backward in the South–whether the facts support it or not.

That got me thinking.  Why is it the South is such a stronghold for the Republicans?  Here are my thoughts:

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Chapter 35: Life with the FFV’s | My Southern Gothic Life

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I haven’t spoken much about my Father’s family.  Mainly, because I didn’t know them nearly as well as my Mother’s family.  Most of them lived in Richmond and were Rushes, not Michaels.

My Father was the product of what was generally regarded, within the family,  as a misalliance.  His parents were married for a few years in the late 1920′s and divorced by the early 1930′s.  This was apparently quite the scandal as this simply was not done by good Families of the era.  So we had no contact with his Father, my Grandfather,  until shortly before my Father died.  Full story to come…

My Father’s Mother, Susan Catherine Rush Michaels, aka Susie,  inadvertently caused two of the major Rush Family scandals.  One was the Divorce.  The second was going crazy and being locked up in the State Mental Hospital some 20 years later.

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Chapter 31: Life with Granny | My Southern Gothic Life

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I know I have single-handedly destroyed the stereotype that all Gay Men adore their Mothers.  But I did adore my Grandmother and my Aunt Goldie.  I am far from a misogynist.

I’ll write about Goldie later, but let me talk about Granny first.

My Grandmother- Granny- was my Mother’s Mother.  Bertha Quintral Sigmon.  Two women could not have been more different.  For all the flighty, Southern Belle manipulations that personified my Mother, Granny offset them by being a totally down to earth realist.

She had to be…

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Chapter 28: Kotex and Funeral Pies | My Southern Gothic Life

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As I said before, my Mother really could not- or would not- cook.

She always blamed my Grandmother.  She said she never bothered to teach her.  Or she blamed my Aunt Goldie, who she said stopped my Grandmother from teaching her because she was too little and fragile.

Both my Grandmother and my Aunt Goldie were wonderful cooks.  My Grandmother’s kitchen was about the size of a walk in closet, but she could turn out delicious Holiday meals, made from scratch, for a dozen people without seeming to make much effort.  She cooked 3 meals a day until the day she died.

Goldie lived for “Southern Living Magazine” and sometimes seemed to try every recipe in every issue.

My Mother would call from work and ask if we wanted anything from the Drive Thru on her way home…

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Chapter 26: Queer in the South: My Story, Part 3 | My Southern Gothic Life

I have a new post up on my other blog:

Since I’ve told the beginning and the most recent part of this journey, I guess I need to go back and pick up the middle part that I skipped over.

There is a reason I skipped this part.  I think of the years I’m going to speak of now as the “Lost Years.”  These are the years when I was getting my act together so I could take it on the road and end up happily where I am now.

So, if I’m going to tell the whole story, I need to go back and pick these up…

via Chapter 26: Queer in the South: My Story, Part 3 | My Southern Gothic Life.

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That’s the Way I Always Heard It Should Be…

I can’t count the nights I had a nightcap and listened to this song in Danville when I was in my early 20’s and trying to get my act together…

It could be the theme song of my other blog…. http://www.mysoutherngothiclife.com

Happily, my life turned out differently.  I learned “to be just me first by myself”.

And didn’t end up by myself…

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