The Dark Origins Of Valentine’s Day : NPR

Interesting….

Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate romance and love and kissy-face fealty. But the origins of this festival of candy and Cupids are actually dark, bloody — and a bit muddled.

Though no one has pinpointed the exact origin of the holiday, one good place to start is ancient Rome, where men hit on women by, well, hitting them.

Those Wild and Crazy Romans

From February 13 to 15, the Romans celebrated the feast of Lupercalia. The men sacrificed a goat and a dog, then whipped women with the hides of the animals they had just slain.

The Roman romantics “were drunk. They were naked,” says Noel Lenski, a historian at the University of Colorado at Boulder. Young women would actually line up for the men to hit them, Lenski says. They believed this would make them fertile.

The brutal fete included a matchmaking lottery, in which young men drew the names of women from a jar. The couple would then be, um, coupled up for the duration of the festival – or longer, if the match was right.

The ancient Romans may also be responsible for the name of our modern day of love. Emperor Claudius II executed two men — both named Valentine — on Feb. 14 of different years in the third century AD. Their martyrdom was honored by the Catholic Church with the celebration of St. Valentine’s Day.

Later, Pope Gelasius I muddled things in the fifth century by combining St. Valentine’s Day with Lupercalia to expel the pagan rituals. But the festival was more of a theatrical interpretation of what it had once been. Dr. Lenski adds, “It was a little more of a drunken revel, but the Christians put clothes back on it. That didn’t stop it from being a day of fertility and love.”

Around the same time, the Normans celebrated Galatin’s Day. Galatin meant “lover of women.” That was likely confused with St. Valentine’s Day at some point, in part because they sound alike.

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William Shakespeare helped romanticize Valentine’s Day in his work, and it gained popularity throughout Britain and the rest of Europe.

Shakespeare In Love

As the years went on, the holiday grew sweeter. Chaucer and Shakespeare romanticized it in their work, and it gained popularity throughout Britain and the rest of Europe. Handmade paper cards became the tokens-du-jour in the Middle Ages

via The Dark Origins Of Valentine’s Day : NPR.

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Decision on Indicting Edwards Coming Soon

Waiting for the next chapter in this sad soap opera….

Former Sen. John Edwards “testified earlier this week in a civil lawsuit his former mistress brought against a former aide over a purported sex tape involving the politician and mistress,” WRAL-TV reports. “No details have been released about Edwards’ deposition, but it could be of interest to federal investigators looking into possible criminal activity involving campaign funds during his 2008 presidential run.”

The station has also reports that “the criminal case is wrapping up, and federal prosecutors could announce whether they will indict Edwards on criminal charges in late February to early March.”

via Decision on Indicting Edwards Coming Soon.

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When Democracy Weakens – NYTimes.com

I can’t encourage you strongly enough to click the link and read this entire column from Bob Herbert in today’s New York Times…

He is so right….

As the throngs celebrated in Cairo, I couldn’t help wondering about what is happening to democracy here in the United States. I think it’s on the ropes. We’re in serious danger of becoming a democracy in name only.

While millions of ordinary Americans are struggling with unemployment and declining standards of living, the levers of real power have been all but completely commandeered by the financial and corporate elite. It doesn’t really matter what ordinary people want. The wealthy call the tune, and the politicians dance.

So what we get in this democracy of ours are astounding and increasingly obscene tax breaks and other windfall benefits for the wealthiest, while the bought-and-paid-for politicians hack away at essential public services and the social safety net, saying we can’t afford them. One state after another is reporting that it cannot pay its bills. Public employees across the country are walking the plank by the tens of thousands. Camden, N.J., a stricken city with a serious crime problem, laid off nearly half of its police force. Medicaid, the program that provides health benefits to the poor, is under savage assault from nearly all quarters.

The poor, who are suffering from an all-out depression, are never heard from. In terms of their clout, they might as well not exist. The Obama forces reportedly want to raise a billion dollars or more for the president’s re-election bid. Politicians in search of that kind of cash won’t be talking much about the wants and needs of the poor. They’ll be genuflecting before the very rich.

MORE:   When Democracy Weakens – NYTimes.com.

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What women want: Gay male romance novels – The Globe and Mail

Fascinating article…

I’ve noticed all these books on the Amazon Kindle list.  I’ve even read a couple.  You can really tell they were written by women and for a different audience than gay men.

More evidence that the “love that dare not speak it’s name” is becoming more and more mainstream.

I’m obviously going to have to think of something else to maintain my outsider status…

Trends in contemporary popular fiction can be as unpredictable as fashion fads. Nobody expected, for instance, that the gloomy, bespectacled Harry Potter would help resuscitate the ailing book industry any more than Lady Gaga’s bizarre looks would help motivate retail sales. Yet today’s newest publishing trend is as out in left field as Potter and Gaga once were.

Over the past year, man-on-man romantic fiction – books featuring two male protagonists engaged in a sexual or emotional relationship with each other – has taken a significant bite out of one of publishing’s biggest markets. Amazon’s Kindle has had such success with the genre that the e-book site has tripled its “m/m” stock since January, 2010. Even Harlequin – the most profitable and old-fashioned romance fiction house in the world – has recently started to publish same-sex love stories via the company’s digital imprint, Carina Press. What’s most surprising, though, are the types of readers the books have hooked: Straight, married women are among the genre’s top fans. That may be because the authors, such as Iowa’s Heidi Cullinan, a 37-year-old suburban mother of two, are frequently heterosexual females, too. Cullinan has penned such recent works as the popular gay romance Double Blind and the homoerotic fantasy Miles and The Magic Flute.

MORE:   What women want: Gay male romance novels – The Globe and Mail.

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Top Forecaster Brown Sees U.S. Adding 2 Million Jobs in 2011 – Bloomberg

This is good news…

The U.S. economy will create 2 million jobs in 2011, twice as many as last year, said Scott Brown, the most accurate forecaster of the jobless rate over the past two years according to Bloomberg News calculations.

Unemployment will end the year at 8.6 percent, projected Brown, chief economist at Raymond James & Associates Inc., less than the 8.8 percent median forecast of 61 economists surveyed by Bloomberg from Feb. 2 to Feb. 8. It dropped to 9 percent in January from 9.4 percent the prior month.

President Barack Obama’s deal with congressional Republicans to reduce the payroll tax and extend Bush-era cuts will put more money in Americans’ pockets and spur demand, said Brown. The need to rebuild inventories as sales climb will give the world’s largest economy an added lift this year, he said.

“We’ll see consumer spending remaining pretty strong,” Brown said in a telephone interview from St. Petersburg, Florida. “Firms large and small won’t hire unless they see more demand.”

via Top Forecaster Brown Sees U.S. Adding 2 Million Jobs in 2011 – Bloomberg.

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Chapter 50: Party at the Hot Sheet Hotel | My Southern Gothic Life

New post up on my other blog…

Here is an excerpt and a link to the full post:

Like most conservative, religious cities, Danville had a lot of Hot Sheet Hotels.

By this I mean, cheap hotels that did a lot of business during the lunch hour and early  evenings. No one really seemed to spend an entire night there…

There was a long history of this in Danville, starting with the infamous Cliff’s Cabins on Riverside Drive and carrying on to this day.  I still see dozens of hotels advertising rooms for $29.95 a “night” every time I drive into town.

One of the favorites was always the Shamrock Motel on Piney Forest Road because they had parking in the rear where cars couldn’t be seen from the street.  The old Holiday Inn was also popular since the parking lot was so big and spread out.  And people could claim they were just having lunch in the restaurant…

More:   Chapter 50: Party at the Hot Sheet Hotel | My Southern Gothic Life.

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The Yuppies Are Back – Yahoo! Finance

Interesting…

Make of it what you will….

Thanks, to my friend Kirk, for sending this to me…

Don’t look now, but the mass-elite customer is coming back. If three times is a trend, then we definitely have a trend of brands catering to high-end and aspiring consumers reporting impressive numbers.

On Wednesday, Polo Ralph Lauren reported that third quarter revenues rose 24 percent. Yes, sales in Asia were up. But the firm said “higher domestic and European shipments for our apparel products and increased domestic accessories shipments were the largest contributors to growth” in its wholesale sector. Sales at RalphLauren.com were up 33 percent. And in a move certain to warm the hearts of Muffy and Potter, the company announced a dividend increase and a $250 million stock buyback. It looks like more swells were donning Peccary leather gloves, a bargain at $399 (originally $599), to protect their hands as they drove in their BMWs. BMW this week reported that it sold 18,656 cars in the U.S. in January 2011, up 21 percent from January 2010.

And where were the BMW owners driving? Why, to the Whole Foods, of course. On Wednesday, Whole Foods  noted that discriminating food snobs had been flocking into its stores in search of arugula, heirloom tomatoes and cheeses with lengthy names (insert your own Whole Paycheck joke here). Total sales were up 14 percent for the quarter, and identical-store sales were up 9.1 percent. Not even food inflation could deflate Whole Foods’s earnings soufflé: EBIDTA (earnings before interest, taxes, depreciation and amortization) was up 26 percent from the prior-year quarter.

The current expansion has entered its seventh quarter, and the pace of growth is accelerating. But these businesses are growing much more rapidly than the overall economy. It’s common to speak of a two-speed recovery: the U.S. vs. emerging markets; business vs. consumers; Wall Street vs. Main Street; exporters vs. purely domestic companies; and comparatively rich vs. comparatively poor. Call them Bobos, Yuppies, elites, swells, toffs, or snobs. Just don’t call them frugal anymore.

The Panic of 2008 and the ensuing market crash were big blows to the self-worth, financial and otherwise, of high-earners. But they’ve benefited disproportionately from the policies and trajectory of this recovery.  It’s always been the case that it’s better to have more money than to have less, and to have more education than to have less. But this has been particularly true in the past two years.

via The Yuppies Are Back – Yahoo! Finance.

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Mary Cleere Haran: RIP

Mary Cleere Haran, one of my favorite Cabaret singers passed away this week-way too young.

Someone put together this tribute on Youtube and I would like to share it with you in her memory…

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Gay Conservatives: GOProud at CPAC

I found this more amusing than disturbing…

This is the new gay Republican group that caused so much conservative consternation when they were allowed to appear at CPAC, the Conservative Political Action Committee, gathering in Washington this week.  The Evangelicals really got their panties in a wad.

These gay people and their allies seem to live in an alternative universe…kind of like a Gay Frat Party at W&L 30 years ago.

And the little blond Gay boy, who doesn’t like Gay people because they are stereotypical kills me.  I hate to tell him, but he is a stereotypical Gay boy.

Poor thing, I predict in 10 years he’ll be starring in the Kansas City Community Theatre’s production of “La Cage Aux Folles”…as a Cagelle.

UPDATE:  I just found out from JoeMyGod’s blog that this guy’s name is Matt Hissey.  Talk about a Hissey Fit….

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Cross-Eyed Opossum To Predict 2011 Oscar Winners

Now, I’ve seen everything…

BERLIN — Heidi, Germany’s beloved cross-eyed opossum, is taking a page from Paul the Octopus’ playbook: the marsupial will attempt to pick this year’s Oscar winners.

Leipzig Zoo Director Joerg Junghold told Germany’s RTL television on Friday that Heidi will be appearing on the “Jimmy Kimmel Show” alongside the Oscars on Feb. 27.

He isn’t revealing much about the show but says: “quite similar to Paul, it will be about tips.” He says Heidi will be filmed in Germany over the next few days for the U.S. show.

Junghold says Heidi’s appearance fee will be donated to an animal protection charity.

Paul correctly predicted the outcome of all seven German games at last year’s World Cup plus the Spain-Netherlands final from an aquarium in Oberhausen. He died in October.

via Cross-Eyed Opossum To Predict 2011 Oscar Winners.

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