We Are Family

After a very long day….I just felt like a little Sister Sledge to move me to a more positive place.

Here’s to family:  By birth, god help us, by marriage or by choice…

Family is a very broad term.  There are so many kinds of families…

Frustrating and maddening as they may sometimes be, I still want to celebrate them.

Surviving it, finding it, creating it….whatever…it all deserves to be recognized for its importance in our lives.

And I just felt like hearing Sister Sledge…

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JetBlue Flight Attendant Steven Slater a Folk Hero After Quitting, Exiting Down Emergency Slide

As a frequent flyer, I can understand why the poor guy cracked!

JetBlue flight attendant Steven Slater has become an instant Internet folk hero after arguing with a passenger, making a four-letter-word-laced intercom announcement and then fleeing down the aircraft’s inflatable emergency slide at New York’s JFK airport — with a beer in hand, snatched from the beverage cart.

Slater, 38, activated the plane’s chute Monday, moments after the passenger who tried to remove luggage from an overhead bin too early upon landing bonked him on the head with a bag and then swore at him, according to news reports. Slater swore back at the passenger over the plane’s loudspeaker and then said, “That’s it. I’ve had it.” He grabbed a beer, his own luggage and slid down onto the tarmac.

via JetBlue Flight Attendant Steven Slater a Folk Hero After Quitting, Exiting Down Emergency Slide.

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The Most Expensive College Dorm Rooms : Planet Money : NPR

I am totally amazed at what College students expect from their dorm rooms today.  My room at Washington and Lee had radiator heat and no air conditioning.  It was about the size of our  bathroom…but it worked fine for me!

We were too busy being out and about exploring our new world to worry about where we slept!

Room and board at U.S. universities has climbed 11% over the past three years, nudged along by expectations that dorm rooms will have amenities like heated pools and plush lounges.

Those costs have helped contribute to the nation’s outstanding student debt— at $829.79 billion— overtaking outstanding credit-card debt— at $826.5 billion, as the Wall Street Journal reports.

via The Most Expensive College Dorm Rooms : Planet Money : NPR.

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Chapter 12: The Original Breakfast Club | My Southern Gothic Life

New post up on my other blog.

Here is an excerpt and the link to the full post:

As I think back, I realize my High School friends and I were the Original Breakfast Club.  You know, like the John Hughes movie in the 1980′s.    Except our bonds were by choice, not forced by Detention…

We all also seemed to be ahead of our time in a couple of ways.  First, we formed a “family” by choice, not by birth, and we pioneered the “group dating” that seems to be the “new normal” for kids today.

Back then, 35 years ago, we were just strange.  Our so we liked to think that’s how people saw us.  Who knows where the truth lies after so many years?

via Chapter 12: The Original Breakfast Club | My Southern Gothic Life.

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Selina Hastings’s ‘The Secret Lives of Somerset Maugham’

I just finished this excellent, entertaining and extremely readable biography of Somerset Maugham.  I highly recommend it….

Here is an excerpt from the review by Michael Dirda in the Washington Post and a link to the full review:

During the second half of his life, William Somerset Maugham (1874-1965) was the most famous writer in the world. Not only did readers love his sardonic tales of sexual passion and dark secrets, of desperation and sudden violence, but so did Hollywood: More of his stories, novels and plays have been filmed than those of any other author. Just one short story, “Rain” — about the prostitute Sadie Thompson and the preacher obsessed with saving her — has provided star turns for Tallulah Bankhead, Gloria Swanson, Joan Crawford and Rita Hayworth, among others.

As this excellent biography by Selina Hastings makes clear, Somerset Maugham lived a life of quite astonishing richness and variety. Over the course of his 91 years, Maugham moved effortlessly around the world and in society: He dined with Henry James and Thomas Hardy, clashed with the sinister Aleister Crowley, argued Russian politics with Alexander Kerensky, discussed art with Sir Kenneth Clark and managed to enjoy the longtime friendship of both Winston Churchill and the Duchess of Windsor. Maugham’s luxurious home on the Riviera, the Villa Mauresque, offered guests beautiful gardens, first-class cuisine, delicious conversation and multiple sexual opportunities. It also boasted a fabulous collection of paintings, including a Gauguin that Maugham had discovered in a farmhouse when visiting Tahiti.

Throughout his life, Maugham always managed to look the perfect English gentleman, exquisitely turned out in bespoke suit and tie, punctilious about social conventions and just a bit shy because of an embarrassing stammer. But he was also exceptionally cosmopolitan in a decidedly continental manner, being absolutely fluent in French, Spanish, German and Italian and possessing enough Russian to work as a spy in Petrograd in 1917. Once he started to earn serious money, he traveled constantly, gathering material for his fiction and happy to be away from England. This was, in part, because he had been trapped into a wretched marriage with Syrie Wellcome, a noted interior designer and the mother of his only child, Liza.

via Selina Hastings’s ‘The Secret Lives of Somerset Maugham,’ reviewed by Michael Dirda.

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Bette Midler, Cher and Elton John: Together!

This may be Gay Overload….

Cher, Elton John and Bette Midler–plus Flip Wilson– all together.

From Cher’s TV show circa 1975….

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Food For Thought: Meat-Based Diet Made Us Smarter : NPR

As you can tell, I spend my Sunday Mornings reading the major newspapers and news outlets on line.  I learn so much…

Here is yet another fascinating article from NPR:

Our earliest ancestors ate their food raw — fruit, leaves, maybe some nuts. When they ventured down onto land, they added things like underground tubers, roots and berries.

It wasn’t a very high-calorie diet, so to get the energy you needed, you had to eat a lot and have a big gut to digest it all. But having a big gut has its drawbacks.

“You can’t have a large brain and big guts at the same time,” explains Leslie Aiello, an anthropologist and director of the Wenner-Gren Foundation in New York City, which funds research on evolution. Digestion, she says, was the energy-hog of our primate ancestor’s body. The brain was the poor stepsister who got the leftovers.

Until, that is, we discovered meat.

“What we think is that this dietary change around 2.3 million years ago was one of the major significant factors in the evolution of our own species,” Aiello says.

and

As we got more, our guts shrank because we didn’t need a giant vegetable processor any more. Our bodies could spend more energy on other things like building a bigger brain. Sorry, vegetarians, but eating meat apparently made our ancestors smarter — smart enough to make better tools, which in turn led to other changes, says Aiello…..

Our teeth, jaws and mouth changed as well as our gut.

and one more excerpt:

It’s not as if raw food isn’t nutritious; it’s just harder for the body to get at the nutrition.

Wrangham urges me to try some raw turnip. Not too bad, but hardly enough to get the juices flowing. “They’ve got a tremendous amount of caloric energy in them,” he says. “The problem is that it’s in the form of starch, which unless you cook it, does not give you very much.”

Then there’s all the chewing that raw food requires. Chimps, for example, sometimes chew for six hours a day. That actually consumes a lot of energy.

“Plato said if we were regular animals, you know, we wouldn’t have time to write poetry,” Wrangham jokes. “You know, he was right.”

I encourage you to click the link and read the entire article:

via Food For Thought: Meat-Based Diet Made Us Smarter : NPR.

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Texting Generation Doesn’t Share Boomers’ Taste for Talk

Fascinating article in today’s Washington Post about the different generations and texting vs calling.

Maybe I’m younger than I think as I hate to talk on the phone but love to text!

Here is an excerpt and the usual link to the full post at the bottom:

Jane Beard and Jeffrey Davis didn’t realize how little they speak to their children by phone until they called AT&T to switch plans. The customer service agent was breathless. The Silver Spring couple had accumulated 28,700 unused minutes.

“None of the kids call us back! They will not call you back,” said Beard, a former actress who with her husband coaches business leaders on public speaking.

A generation of e-mailing, followed by an explosion in texting, has pushed the telephone conversation into serious decline, creating new tensions between baby boomers and millennials — those in their teens, 20s and early 30s.

Nearly all age groups are spending less time talking on the phone; boomers in their mid-50s and early 60s are the only ones still yakking as they did when Ma Bell was America’s communications queen. But the fall of the call is driven by 18- to 34-year-olds, whose average monthly voice minutes have plunged from about 1,200 to 900 in the past two years, according to research by Nielsen. Texting among 18- to 24-year-olds has more than doubled in the same period, from an average of 600 messages a month two years ago to more than 1,400 texts a month, according to Nielsen.

Young people say they avoid voice calls because the immediacy of a phone call strips them of the control that they have over the arguably less-intimate pleasures of texting, e-mailing, Facebooking or tweeting. They even complain that phone calls are by their nature impolite, more of an interruption than the blip of an arriving text.

Kevin Loker, 20, a rising junior at George Mason University, said he and his school friends rarely just call someone, for fear of being seen as rude or intrusive. First, they text to make an appointment to talk. “They’ll write, ‘Can I call you at such-and-such time?’ ” said Loker, executive editor of Connect2Mason.com, a student media site. “People want to be polite. I feel like, in general, people my age are not as quick on their feet to just talk on the phone.”

via Texting generation doesn’t share boomers’ taste for talk.

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Putting Our Brains on Hold – NYTimes.com

Another great editorial from Bob Herbert in the New York Times this morning.

Here is an excerpt with the link to the full piece at the bottom:

The world leadership qualities of the United States, once so prevalent, are fading faster than the polar ice caps.

We once set the standard for industrial might, for the advanced state of our physical infrastructure, and for the quality of our citizens’ lives. All are experiencing significant decline.

The latest dismal news on the leadership front comes from the College Board, which tells us that the U.S., once the world’s leader in the percentage of young people with college degrees, has fallen to 12th among 36 developed nations.

At a time when a college education is needed more than ever to establish and maintain a middle-class standard of living, America’s young people are moving in exactly the wrong direction. A well-educated population also is crucially important if the U.S. is to succeed in an increasingly competitive global environment.

But instead of exercising the appropriate mental muscles, we’re allowing ourselves to become a nation of nitwits, obsessed with the comings and goings of Lindsay Lohan and increasingly oblivious to crucially important societal issues that are all but screaming for attention. What should we be doing about the legions of jobless Americans, the deteriorating public schools, the debilitating wars, the scandalous economic inequality, the corporate hold on governmental affairs, the commercialization of the arts, the deficits?

Why is there not serious and widespread public engagement with these issues — and many others that could easily come to mind? That kind of engagement would lead to creative new ideas and would serve to enrich the lives of individual Americans and the nation as a whole. But it would require a heavy social and intellectual lift.

via Op-Ed Columnist – Putting Our Brains on Hold – NYTimes.com.

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Joan Rivers: A Piece of Work

Steve and I just got in from seeing this great documentary about Joan Rivers and Show Business.

I strongly recommend it!

It’s playing locally at the Carousel Grand….

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