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Just When You Thought I Was Out….I’m Back!

Believe it or not, I’m back to this blog.

I state this publicly as insurance that I will follow through….

I needed some time away.  I focused on my other blog for a while….

But it’s time to come back where I started.

Thank you for your patience.

I originally started this blog to ironically address things that where lost as we moved to the 21st Century.  Then I realized, I was at risk of becoming a grumpy old man screaming at children to get off my lawn.  I never wanted to be that….

A lot has happened over the last couple of years to make me re-evaluate a lot of things.  I’ve changed jobs and careers.  I’ve lost some important people in my life.  I’ve rethought how best to address our political differences….

But I’m fundamentally the same.

How will  this blog be going forward?  I’m not sure….

I want to be kinder and gentler.  More open to dialogue about politics and less judgmental.  I mean well…It doesn’t do anyone any good to sit at home and scream at their TV- or vent on their blogs.  We need to talk to each other civilly and with an open mind and heart.

We need to listen to each other….

But if that fails, screw it.  I’ve never been shy about my opinions.

There is just too much insanity in Politics in North Carolina, Virginia and the U.S.A for me to keep my mouth shut.  This is what is making me come back.  I can’t just sit on the sidelines…

Circumstances pulled me back in…..

I’m trying to be less political on Facebook, so expect more political posts here instead.  But I realize there are other blogs that do politics much better than I ever could.  This will just be what catches my interests and makes me want to share or comment.  I don’t promise in-depth analysis, but I do promise lots of opinion.

Culturally, I plan to be just as judgmental as ever.  I’ll post about what I like and what I don’t…..

And I hope we can pick up the dialogue we suspended when I stepped away….

Again, thanks for our patience….

Let’s roll!

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Chapter 91: The Evils of Water Proof Mascara

I really do plan to revisit and return to LostInTheTwentyFirstCentury.com soon, but in the meantime, here is a post from my other blog…..

 

According to my Mother, water proof mascara did more to change the South than air conditioning.

She was an old school Southern woman who believed you had to create a little magic each day as you went forth to play your role.  I’m not sure she ever knew she was playing a role, but she was a consummate actress.  Someone once said that whenever a Southerner decided not to take the stage, the world lost a great actress.  He must have known my Mother.

More:   Chapter 91: The Evils of Water Proof Mascara | My Southern Gothic Life.

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My Southern Gothic Life: Chapter 90: The Love I Lost

New Blog Post:

 

I returned to Sweet Briar College a couple of weeks ago for what I feared was the last time.  I had not been there since 1981.

My last visit there, 34 years ago,  was populated by ghosts and anxiety.  I was part of the Class of 1981 at Washington and Lee University.  Most of my friends were from the class of 1980.  When I went to Spring Weekend there, in 1981,  we were already beginning to deal  with the past.

I was there with one of my best friends, my first close friend  at W&L, who had lost the love of his life to another man while his Sweet Briar girl was on Junior Year  Abroad.  Thus it was poignant to begin with.

But more importantly, the Class of 1980 was gone.  Those had been our friends and our link to Sweet Briar.  The Sweet Briar Girls we came to see that weekend felt the loss just as we did…Our friends who had made our college years so special had graduated.  It was not the same…..

After that weekend, I never thought I would be at Sweet Briar again.  I thought it was time to move on and put it all in the past.

As a History major, I should have known better.  Our past, collectively and individually, is a part of us and only time can show us how much a part of us it really is….

More:   My Southern Gothic Life | When I was younger I could remember anything, whether it happened or not; but I am getting old, and soon I shall remember only the latter. (Mark Twain).

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Chapter 83: Comrades in Arms | My Southern Gothic Life

I posted a new post on my other blog a couple of days ago.

Here is an excerpt and a link to the full post:

 

It seems every generation has their wars; some are just more obvious than others.

I’ve been reading a biography of the poet Siegfried Sassoon and studying the British “War Poets” of the First World War.  Stories of young men struggling with the realities of war and trying to reconcile them with the peaceful, conventional world they were fighting to preserve.  Many of them were young men trying to reconcile their sexuality with the roles they were raised to play in a world that was fast disappearing.

In theory, my generation had no wars.  We were too young for Vietnam and too old for the first Gulf War.  I remember being in my early teens when the Vietnam War ended.  I remember being outside as fireworks exploded and everyone tried to make merry over the fact the Paris Peace Accords had ended a war no one had really wanted by then.  I remember my neighbor, whose son had safely survived the conflict, hugging me and saying:  “I’m so glad you won’t have to go to war.  You are safe.  We can all get back to normal.”

More:   Chapter 83: Comrades in Arms | My Southern Gothic Life.

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A Temple Terrace Christmas | My Southern Gothic Life

A rerun from Christmases past from my other blog:

I promise new posts will be coming….

In the meantime, if you need a little bit of the Ghosts of Christmas past to help you appreciate your Holidays, here are two of my Christmas posts from last year:

via A Temple Terrace Christmas | My Southern Gothic Life.

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New Post up on My Southern Gothic Life

New post up on my other blog.

Here is an excerpt and a link to the full post:

I’ve posted a lot of amusing posts in the past.  And I have a few more lined up to come…But this isn’t one of them.  This one is a little more reflective.

To put it kindly, my Mother is entering the twilight of her life…and it’s a journey for my sister and I to deal with this….and to deal with each other.

More:   Chapter 77: The Wall | My Southern Gothic Life.

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Provisional Ballots Could Determine Virginia Attorney General Race

Still no final decision in the VA Attorney General race.

It’s down to provisional ballots- a by product of Voter ID laws.  These are ballots made by people who came to vote without acceptable ID.

This is the fun we have to look forward to in NC next year….

More cost and unnecessary red tape being forced on us by the GOP in order to suppress Demoocratic voters and interfere with Democracy.

To me, this also opens the door to more potential Voter Fraud in the handling of these provisional ballots by the localities….

From WDBJ 7:

 

With the attorney general’s race still too close to call, provisional ballots could determine who wins.

At this time, it’s unclear of exactly how many provisional ballots were cast statewide.

A provisional ballot was cast if a voter didn\’t have ID or showed up to the polls and wasn\’t registered to vote.

Localities where a provisional ballot was cast must report those to the State Board of Elections to determine if the vote becomes official; a process that could take up to a week.

via Provisional Ballots could determine Attorney General race | Local News – Home.

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Ken Cuccinnelli: DNOKD

I’m sorry, but this is really making me get on my native Virginian High Horse…

Apparently, Ken Cuccinnelli is refusing to call Terry McAuliffe who defeated him in yesterday’s Virginia Gubernatorial Election.

This is simply not done.

Good Sportsmanship and Gentlemanly behavior are very important to Virginians.  This behavior is just plain tacky…

As the FFV’s, or the First Families of Virginia to the non-cognescenti, would say:

“Ken Cuccinnelli is DNOKD.”

“Definitely not our kind, dear….”

This partially explains his loss…..

From TalkingPointsMemo.com:

Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli R had not called Democrat Terry McAuliffe after losing the Virginia gubernatorial race and had no plans to do so as of late Wednesday morning, according to a report in The Washington Post.Cuccinelli has already publicly conceded he lost the race.

At a press conference later on Wednesday McAuliffe said he had still not heard from Cuccinelli.”I have not had the opportunity yet to speak to the attorney general,” McAuliffe said.

The fact that Cuccinelli has not called underscores how bitter the Virginia gubernatorial race was for both candidates. Much of the advertising by both Cuccinelli and McAuliffes campaign was negative. And despite public polling ahead of Election Day showing McAuliffe with a wide lead over Cuccinelli, the now governor-elect only narrowly defeated Cuccinelli.

via Report: Cuccinelli Has No Plans To Call McAuliffe.

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Some Thoughts on the Virginia Elections

I’m still recovering from the heart palpitations and adrenaline rush from waiting out the Virginia election results tonight and wanted to capture my thoughts while they are still fresh.

Before commenting, let me remind some of you of my background.  I was born, raised and educated in Virginia.  I lived there until about 25 years ago.  Also, about 25 years ago- and please sit down now- I worked as paid campaign staff for Republican candidates.  That was prior to my “road to Damascus” moment when I realized I really wasn’t a Republican.  That was also prior to the GOP going completely crazy….There once were socially liberal Republicans.

Like a lot of people, I became a Democrat by choice and after much thought.  That’s the difference between the GOP and the Dems.  Democrats think.  Sometimes too much…

Anyway….

The Virginia gubernatorial election today should not have been this close.  It was a nail bitter.  Let me give you my perspective as to why:

  1. Both Candidates had very high negative ratings in polling.  No one loved Terry McAuliffe, but a lot of people hated Ken Cuccinnelli more.  This was not a scenario to drive Democratic turnout.  People are much more likely to show up to vote for someone than against someone.  I’m not sure if McAuliffe could have defeated any other Republican as he was not beloved by anyone.  Again, anti-Cuccinnelli hatred was the motivating factor to Democrats and hate doesn’t really drive Dems like it does Republicans.
  2. The polls, for the last few weeks, were showing a blowout.  People thought they didn’t need to make the effort to go vote against Cuccinnelli as it looked safe that McAuliffe would win.
  3. Nothing makes the Tea Party madder and motivates them more than polls showing their candidate will lose.
  4. Virginia does not have any early voting.  It takes an extra effort for working people and poor people to go to the polls.  Thinking McAuliffe was a safe win, they didn’t make that extra effort.
  5. The Religious Wrong and old white people will vote for their candidates, like Cuccinnelli, come hell or high water.  I wish we could find a way to instill that drive in Democratic voters.
  6. I don’t know to what extent Voter ID laws suppressed Democratic turnout, but I’m sure it did.  Unfortunately, it doesn’t take much to suppress Democratic turnout.
  7. Thank god for Northern Virginia and the Government shutdown.  That motivated people in Northern Virginia, who are heavily Democratic to turn out.

As I said, this should not have been this close, but it was.  It wasn’t close enough to effectively end Ken Cuccinnelli’s political career or kill the Tea Party.  Those are the real negative repercussions.  This battle will continue.

The good news is that the absolutely bat shit crazy GOP Lt Governor candidate went down in flames.  This gives us a well positioned Democrat to run for Governor in Virginia in 4 years when, due to Virginia law which prevents Governors from seeking re-election,  McAuliffe won’t be eligible to run.  The other bit of good news is that McAuliffe ran on very left-of-center positions and still won.  Even though he was personally unpopular.  That proves that Progressive positions are not a death sentence even in a state still as conservative as Virginia.

It looks like the Attorney General’s race in Virginia is still too close to call.   Right now, Democrat Mark Herring is down by fewer than 200 votes.  That total has been changing constantly and the winner flipping back and forth.   The results of this race will prove interesting down the road.  This office is usually a stepping stone to future gubernatorial candidates.  The Republican candidate, Mark Obenshain, is the son of conservative Republican Richard “Dick” Obenshain who was killed in a plane crash while running for the U.S. Senate seat ultimately won my John Warner in 1978.  He has a legacy and could be a real threat as a future gubernatorial candidate- and he is very Conservative but not as Conservative as Cuccinnelli and defeated Lt Governor candidate E.W Jackson.  Since both Cuccinnelli and Jackson are crazy Tea Party Conservatives, this does not mean much in comparison.  The GOP had all their hope on Obenshain as even they had written off Cuccinnelli and Jackson.

One other thought.  E.W. Jackson was not only crazy, he was Black.  Ralph Northam beat him by 10 points in the Lt Governor’s race, by far the largest spread of the night.  To me, this proves the Tea Party will support any right-wing lunatic- as long as he is white….

 

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Cuccinelli Brags About His ‘A’ NRA Rating At Site Of Virginia Tech Mass Shooting Where 32 People Were Killed

Yep, Cuccinelli seems determined to go down in flames….

This is not only politically wrong, it’s politically stupid,  not to mention insensitive, to brag about the NRA giving him an “A” rating and being against background checks at a place like this….

Burn, baby, burn….

From ThinkProgress.org:

Virginia Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli II (R) boasted at Virginia Tech, site of the 2007 shootings that killed 32 people, that he opposed universal background checks and was proud of his “A” rating from the National Rifle Association. Terry McAuliffe, his Democratic opponent for Governor, vowed to support efforts to keep guns out of the hands of violent criminals and vowed to prioritize the safety of students over the group’s ratings.

In the final debate of the 2013 Virginia gubernatorial campaign Thursday, both candidates were asked whether they supported universal background checks for gun purchases — a concept supported by 92 percent of Virginians according to a January poll. McAuliffe told the Blacksburg, Virginia audience that, “as a parent [and] a spouse,” as a gun owner, and as a hunter, he supported both the Second Amendment and universal background checks. Noting the pin he was wearing in memory of the 2007 victims, McAuliffe said, “some people should not own guns.”

Cuccinelli responded by dismissing the need for background checks, telling the questioner, “none of what you’ve asked about would have affected that tragedy” at Virginia Tech. Cuccinelli then bragged that the National Rifle Association, which has steadfastly opposed against any efforts to check the criminal backgrounds of arms purchasers:

via Cuccinelli Brags About His ‘A’ NRA Rating At Site Of Mass Shooting Where 32 People Were Killed | ThinkProgress.

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