The Great U-Turn

Brilliant column by the brilliant Robert Reich.

I remember growing up, my Father made enough money to have a house, 2 cars, a maid and support a wife and two children.  He didn’t go to college, but he built a solid, middle class life.  My mother worked, initially, for what was called “pin”money.  For the extras….And to keep her out of trouble.

That is no longer the case….

And Robert Reich captures it beautifully…..

Do you recall a time in America when the income of a single school teacher or baker or salesman or mechanic was enough to buy a home, have two cars, and raise a family?

I remember. My father (who just celebrated his 100th birthday) earned enough for the rest of us to live comfortably. We weren’t rich but never felt poor, and our standard of living rose steadily through the 1950s and 1960s.

That used to be the norm. For three decades after World War II, America created the largest middle class the world had ever seen. During those years the earnings of the typical American worker doubled, just as the size of the American economy doubled. (Over the last thirty years, by contrast, the size of the economy doubled again but the earnings of the typical American went nowhere.)

In that earlier period, more than a third of all workers belonged to a trade union – giving average workers the bargaining power necessary to get a large and growing share of the large and growing economic pie. (Now, fewer than 7 percent of private-sector workers are unionized.)

Then, CEO pay then averaged about 20 times the pay of their typical worker (now it’s over 200 times).

More:  Robert Reich (The Great U-Turn).

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The Magic of Facebook: Part 1

I say part one as I’m sure there is more to follow….

Tonight one of my Facebook friends mentioned Janice in one of her comments.  Janice Barnett is a great singer who provided the soundtrack to our college years.  She gave great concerts and “took us to church”, which we probably needed, at the end.  She was-and is- a great lady and a great talent.  She meant an awful lot to kids who went to Washington and Lee University, Randolph Macon Woman’s College, Mary Baldwin College, Hollins College, Sweet Briar College and other schools in our “circuit” back in the day.

I found her on Facebook tonight, sent her a friend request, and she graciously accepted.  I think it made the day for many of my college friends to know she is “real”, alive and happy.

We loved Janice and it’s nice to know that, 35 years later, we all still hold that special time and place that her music created in our hearts.

And we still love Janice!

Here is one of her greatest hits that we all danced many a night away to…..

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Sunset Blvd: 2015

That’s all I can think about….

Sunset Blvd 2015…

Please, God….Don’t let this give Demi any ideas for a re-make….

 

The body of a 21-year-old man was discovered in the swimming pool at Demi Moore’s Beverly Hills home on Sunday morning, PEOPLE has confirmed. The news was first reported by TMZ.

More:  Man Found Dead in Demi Moore’s Pool: Reports : People.com.

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The Late, Great Amy Winehouse….

We saw this documentary last weekend at a movie theatre in Greensboro….

It was heartbreakingly good…

I loved Amy Winehouse and this just reinforced my belief that she was a true artist.

She had her demons, she had a rough home life, she made some bad choices, but she was a once in a lifetime talent.

And she was eaten alive by the press.

Some people just don’t have the ability to cope with fame on a global level.  It has to be both wonderful and scary.

I urge you to see this documentary and maybe you will understand.

She was an artist, not mere fodder for the Corporate Media Conglomerates….

And I won’t comment on her parents….

But I will say this supports my theory that family of choice frequently is more supportive and good for someone than birth families…

What a loss….

And further proof of her greatness as a vocalist and perhaps what she was really looking for in life…

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A Golden Girl’s Legacy Brings Hope To LGBT Youth

Yet another reason to love Bea Arthur….

I saw her once at a hotel bar in New York, but didn’t approach her.  Now I wish I had….

Further proof tough old broads can have a heart of gold….

 

Back in 2005, when the Ali Forney Center could only shelter 12 kids a time, “Golden Girls” star Bea Arthur had flown to New York to lend the organization her support. Her one-woman show, “Bea Arthur on Broadway: Just Between Friends,” raised more than $40,000 for the center, and Arthur contributed a personal donation as well.

But when Arthur passed away in 2009, the center was struggling to keep up with rent, food and payroll payments. Carl Siciliano, the center’s director, was driving to work when he got a call from a landlord threatening to bring eviction proceedings against the center. A Roman Catholic and former Benedictine monk, Siciliano pulled his car to the side of the road and prayed for help.

“I prayed to all my favorite saints, and everyone I could think of in heaven that cared about me or our kids. I included Bea in those prayers, knowing how good she had been to us,” Siciliano told the Huffington Post.

When Siciliano arrived at work that day, one of Arthur’s closest friends called to tell him that the Ali Forney Center was at the top of Arthur’s list of charities in her will. Several weeks later, a check for $300,000 arrived from her estate.

More:   A Golden Girl’s Legacy Brings Hope To LGBT Youth.

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Ah, Sweet Mysteries of Life…..

I’ve worked hard over the last couple of years to be less judgmental, but this post will prove I’ve failed….

I just can’t understand some things.

Here is a brief list.  Maybe you can help me….

  1. Why, when people in the US are heavier than ever, are designers and clothing companies making and pushing “slim cut” clothes?
  2. Why does dental floss have an expiration date?
  3. Why do people who waive the Confederate Flag think Black people should “get over” slavery because it happened more than 150 years ago?
  4. Why do people no longer call out “white trash” behavior?
  5. Why do we have to take our shoes off in airports because of one bomb attempt, but won’t support gun control or background checks for gun purchases when over 32,000 people were killed by guns in 2011 alone.
  6. In a related question, why does anyone need a semi-automatic weapon?
  7. How many women really look good in Yoga Pants and why do the rest of them wear them in public?
  8. How many men really look good in Tank Tops and why do the rest of them wear them in public?
  9. Why does anyone wear flip-flops in New York or any big city?
  10. Why does anyone fly when they can take the train?
  11. Why don’t people realize “cutting spending” is stupid?  If nothing else, we need to repair and grow our infrastructure before it collapses.
  12. Why does anyone who thinks Social Security and Medicare are vital programs vote Republican?
  13. Why do people think Bernie Sanders can’t win?
  14. Why do people love Hillary, but not trust her?
  15. Why does God only ask stupid Republican losers to run for President?
  16. Does anyone have a more petulant, distinct “resting bitch face” than Wisconsin Gov. Scott Walker?
  17. Does Bobby Jindal have any self awareness?  Does anyone, outside of Louisiana, know or care who he is?
  18. Does Jeb! really think we have forgotten W?
  19. Why hasn’t Donald Trump married a Kardashian?
  20. Why does Caitlin Jenner getting an award make people so angry?  Don’t they realize there are many kinds of courage….
  21. When did “facts” become subjective?
  22. Why does salt have an expiration date?
  23. Why does anyone go to the movies at the theatre anymore?
  24. Why do men wearing their shirt tails hanging out think it disguises their belly?
  25. Why are there more camel toes in the average airport than in Saudi Arabia?
  26. Are there really that many people without mirrors at home?
  27. When did “comfortable” become a fashion buzz word and why?
  28. When did self-respect start meaning lack of self awareness?
  29. Don’t people realize “Letting it all hang out” was 1960’s verbiage not 2015 Fashion advice?
  30. Why have over 25 countries banned Monsanto and their GMO food and we haven’t?
  31. Why does anyone believe a Corporation is a “person”?
  32. Why don’t the 99% fight back more against the 1%?
  33. What ever happened to social activism?
  34. Why don’t people realize there is no “next” little black dress and nothing is the “new” black in fashion?
  35. Why do people up North think the South has a monopoly on racial issues and prejudice?
  36. Why all the excitement about Gay Marriage when you can still get fired from your job for being Gay and getting married?
  37. Why don’t Christians actually read the Bible?
  38. Does anyone really think anyone having a Gay Wedding would order Pizza for the reception?  Well, maybe lesbians….
  39. Who are all these supposed “stars” I’m reading about on line and never heard of?
  40. Do Republicans have a heart at all?
  41. Do Democrats know how to run campaigns at all?
  42. Why does the North Carolina Legislature seem determined to drag us back to the 19th century?
  43. Is anyone in North Carolina Politics more deservedly despised than State Senator Trudy Wade?
  44. Why would any woman vote for a Republican?
  45. Why would any Gay person vote for a Republican?
  46. Why would any person of color vote for a Republican?
  47. Why would any student vote for a Republican?
  48. Why would any person not independently wealthy vote for a Republican?
  49. Why would any person with a heart vote for a Republican?
  50. Why does anyone vote for a Republican?

I’m back….

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Just When You Thought I Was Out….I’m Back!

Believe it or not, I’m back to this blog.

I state this publicly as insurance that I will follow through….

I needed some time away.  I focused on my other blog for a while….

But it’s time to come back where I started.

Thank you for your patience.

I originally started this blog to ironically address things that where lost as we moved to the 21st Century.  Then I realized, I was at risk of becoming a grumpy old man screaming at children to get off my lawn.  I never wanted to be that….

A lot has happened over the last couple of years to make me re-evaluate a lot of things.  I’ve changed jobs and careers.  I’ve lost some important people in my life.  I’ve rethought how best to address our political differences….

But I’m fundamentally the same.

How will  this blog be going forward?  I’m not sure….

I want to be kinder and gentler.  More open to dialogue about politics and less judgmental.  I mean well…It doesn’t do anyone any good to sit at home and scream at their TV- or vent on their blogs.  We need to talk to each other civilly and with an open mind and heart.

We need to listen to each other….

But if that fails, screw it.  I’ve never been shy about my opinions.

There is just too much insanity in Politics in North Carolina, Virginia and the U.S.A for me to keep my mouth shut.  This is what is making me come back.  I can’t just sit on the sidelines…

Circumstances pulled me back in…..

I’m trying to be less political on Facebook, so expect more political posts here instead.  But I realize there are other blogs that do politics much better than I ever could.  This will just be what catches my interests and makes me want to share or comment.  I don’t promise in-depth analysis, but I do promise lots of opinion.

Culturally, I plan to be just as judgmental as ever.  I’ll post about what I like and what I don’t…..

And I hope we can pick up the dialogue we suspended when I stepped away….

Again, thanks for our patience….

Let’s roll!

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Chapter 91: The Evils of Water Proof Mascara

I really do plan to revisit and return to LostInTheTwentyFirstCentury.com soon, but in the meantime, here is a post from my other blog…..

 

According to my Mother, water proof mascara did more to change the South than air conditioning.

She was an old school Southern woman who believed you had to create a little magic each day as you went forth to play your role.  I’m not sure she ever knew she was playing a role, but she was a consummate actress.  Someone once said that whenever a Southerner decided not to take the stage, the world lost a great actress.  He must have known my Mother.

More:   Chapter 91: The Evils of Water Proof Mascara | My Southern Gothic Life.

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My Southern Gothic Life: Chapter 90: The Love I Lost

New Blog Post:

 

I returned to Sweet Briar College a couple of weeks ago for what I feared was the last time.  I had not been there since 1981.

My last visit there, 34 years ago,  was populated by ghosts and anxiety.  I was part of the Class of 1981 at Washington and Lee University.  Most of my friends were from the class of 1980.  When I went to Spring Weekend there, in 1981,  we were already beginning to deal  with the past.

I was there with one of my best friends, my first close friend  at W&L, who had lost the love of his life to another man while his Sweet Briar girl was on Junior Year  Abroad.  Thus it was poignant to begin with.

But more importantly, the Class of 1980 was gone.  Those had been our friends and our link to Sweet Briar.  The Sweet Briar Girls we came to see that weekend felt the loss just as we did…Our friends who had made our college years so special had graduated.  It was not the same…..

After that weekend, I never thought I would be at Sweet Briar again.  I thought it was time to move on and put it all in the past.

As a History major, I should have known better.  Our past, collectively and individually, is a part of us and only time can show us how much a part of us it really is….

More:   My Southern Gothic Life | When I was younger I could remember anything, whether it happened or not; but I am getting old, and soon I shall remember only the latter. (Mark Twain).

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Chapter 89: She Went to Sweet Briar

Revised version of New Post published a few days ago on my other blog, My Southern Gothic Life,

I’m  back to blogging sooner than I expected because I heard we are losing  Sweet Briar College….

It has taken me a week to digest this and I still can’t believe it.  We always think our colleges will outlast us.  Will be eternal.  And it’s a shock to lose one that meant to much to so many of us…

First of all, I did not go to Sweet Briar.  I am a man and therefore excluded from the Sweet Briar sorority.  But I did go to Washington and Lee University in the late 1970’s and early 1980’s when it was still an all male school.  And Sweet Briar was a big part of my college experience.  I dated Sweet Briar Girls.  Sweet Briar Girls are some of the best friends I ever had….

More:  Chapter 89: She Went to Sweet Briar | My Southern Gothic Life.

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